Should we say that there are cases when a man despises another man and doesn't know it; or should we describe such cases by saying that he doesn't despise him but unintentionally behaves towards him in a way [.|‒ ‒ ‒] speaks to him in a tone of voice, etc., ‒ ‒ ‒ which in general would go together with despising him. Either form of expression is correct; but they may betray different tendencies of mind.